Hello friends, today I am going to give you some tips about Personality development & Confidence improvement, which will be very helpful for you.
Be better than most people in one thing:
Not everyone can become an expert in every field, but he can choose two areas according to his interest, in which he can become better than others. When I was in school, many students were good at studying and other things, but I was the best in class in Geometry, and that is why I used to feel very confident. If you achieve Maharath in any one thing, then it will make you in-general confident. Just you have to choose something according to your interest and it has to be the best in your circle, your circle depends on you, it can be your school, college, your colony or your city.
You can choose any field, it can be any art, music, dancing, etc can be any sport, can be a subject or something in which your expertise can make you stand out from the crowd and make you a special place. . This is not so difficult, you will already be better than many in something or the other, just by working a bit and become an expert in it, it will take some time, but when you do this, everyone will respect you and you will be more will feel confident.
And the person who becomes special in any field does not worry about having less knowledge in other fields, you only think whether Sachin Tendulkar will ever get upset that he did not study much… never!
Recall your achievements:
Your past achievements will help you feel confident. These small and big achievements can be any. For example: If you have ever come first in class, have done school top in a subject, have achieved a victory in singing completion or sports, have achieved a big target, have been an employee of the month. Anything that makes you feel good.
You can write these achievements in dairy, and you can see them anytime, especially when you want to boost your confidence. An even better way is to make some images related to these achievements in your mind and add them to make a small movie and play it in your mind from time to time. Definitely this will help boost your confidence.
Do something that reduces your Confidence again and again:
Some people do not feel confident due to any particular reason. Like if some people have stage-fear, then someone gets nervous in front of the crowd. If you are also facing such a challenge then beat it. And the best way to beat is to do the activity that makes you nervous so many times that it becomes your strength. Be sure that even though some people take this effort lightly in the beginning and maybe even joke, but when you are constantly engaged in your efforts, then those people will one day stand up and clap for you.
One line of Gandhiji has always inspired me, “First they will not pay attention to you, then they will laugh at you, then they will fight with you, and then you will win.” So you too let them ignore, laugh, let them fight, but in the end you win. Because you are here only to win, not to lose.
Don’t give excuse of not knowing English for low confidence:
English dominates our country. I also consider knowledge of English essential, but just because of its knowledge you can read many good books, blogs, etc., you can watch programs, movies, etc. more than one. But is knowledge of this language necessary to be confident? No. Knowing English can make you even more confident, but it is not necessary to be confident. The purpose of any language is to express your thoughts in words, and if you can do the same work in another language, then you are not obliged to know English.
I am from Bilaspur, I have never heard the Minister Amar Aggarwal speak in English, but I have rarely seen a leader as confident as him. In the same way, confidence in leaders like Mayawati and Mulayam Singh is full of code, but they always use Hindi language only.
Friends, in some places such as knowledge of English in job-interview, may be necessary for your selection, but not for confidence, you can become the most confident person in the world without knowing English.
Do not be afraid to make mistakes:
Do you know someone who has never made a mistake? Would not know, because it is human nature to make mistakes, and I would say that birthright too. You exercise this right. It is not wrong to make a mistake, it is wrong to repeat it. As long as you do not repeat the same mistake again and again, you do not make any mistake, you make an effort and learn something from the experience that results from it.
Friends, many times everything happens in us that we should have to do some work, but still we are unable to confidently do that work for fear of failure. Do not be afraid of making mistakes, you should be afraid of those who do not have the courage to try because of this fear !! If you pick up the history of all the successful people, then many failures will be hidden in the glare of their success.
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